I'm sorry to hear you're having issues with the replacement remote for your cinemate II.
As this is an IR-based remote, no pairing is required for the remote to work.
Can you please confirm where the remote was purchased from? Is it brand new? Can you please provide a photograph of it?
I'll look forward to hearing from you.
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