Re: PLEASE HELP!! ANYONE...I'M AT WITS END
Strip it down to bare bones first and test the Bose system with just a microphone. Then just a guitar (no effects, just the guitar straight into the Tonematch), and at low volumes AND in your home, somewhere away from fluorescent tube lights too.
Trav12, from your postings it sounds like you know your equipment and know what it should sound like. This must be a very frustrating experience.
Nonetheless, snakehips advice is a good one. In fact, I'd skip the Tonematch too.
Please do the following and give us some feedback.
Plug just your guitar and mic straight into the Bose -- no Tonematch, no anything else. How does it sound? Any better, no better, worse?
I know this sounds basic but by do this and giving us some feedback, it could give us a starting point to help with assessing your issues.